๐๏ธ Introduction
Bhai Dooj, also known as Bhaiya Dooj, Bhau Beej, or Bhai Phonta, is one of the most beautiful Indian festivals that celebrates the bond between brothers and sisters. It comes right after Diwali, marking the end of the five-day Diwali festival.
This day is dedicated to love, protection, and togetherness, symbolizing the pure bond of affection between siblings.
๐ When is Bhai Dooj Celebrated?
Bhai Dooj is celebrated on the second lunar day (Dwitiya) of the Shukla Paksha in the Hindu month of Kartika, which usually falls in October or November every year.
In 2025, Bhai Dooj will be celebrated on October 22.
๐ชท The Story Behind Bhai Dooj
According to Hindu mythology, the story of Bhai Dooj is connected to Lord Yama (the God of Death) and his sister Yamuna (the river goddess).
It is said that one day, Yamuna invited her brother Yama to her home. She performed a traditional tilak ceremony, offered him sweets, and prayed for his long life. Deeply touched by her love, Yama blessed her and declared that every brother who visits his sister on this day and receives tilak will be blessed with a long and prosperous life.
Since then, this day has been celebrated as Bhai Dooj โ symbolizing the sacred relationship between siblings.
๐ How Bhai Dooj is Celebrated
On Bhai Dooj, sisters invite their brothers to their homes and perform a tilak (vermilion mark) on their forehead. They perform aarti, offer sweets, and pray for their brotherโs happiness and success.
In return, brothers give gifts or money to their sisters and promise to protect them throughout life.
Different states in India celebrate it differently:
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In Maharashtra and Goa, itโs called Bhau Beej.
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In West Bengal, itโs known as Bhai Phonta.
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In Nepal, the festival is called Bhai Tika and is celebrated with great enthusiasm.
๐ Significance of Bhai Dooj
Bhai Dooj is not just a ritual โ itโs an emotion that strengthens the family bond.
It reminds us of:
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The importance of family and relationships.
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The selfless love between siblings.
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The value of prayers and blessings in Hindu tradition.
It is a time when families come together, share joy, and celebrate togetherness.
๐ Modern Celebration of Bhai Dooj
Today, even though people may live far away due to work or studies, they still celebrate Bhai Dooj by:
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Sending gifts online.
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Doing video calls for tilak ceremonies.
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Sharing memories and wishes on social media.
This festival continues to adapt with time while keeping its spiritual and emotional essence alive.
๐บ Conclusion
Bhai Dooj is a heartwarming reminder of the eternal bond between brothers and sisters.
It teaches love, respect, and care for family. Celebrating Bhai Dooj means celebrating the spirit of togetherness, which is the true essence of Indian culture.
So this Bhai Dooj, letโs celebrate love, pray for each otherโs happiness, and cherish the beautiful sibling bond forever.

